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Doreen |
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Neighbor Bob |
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Friends Tricia and Craig with neighbor Wayne |
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A ton of food |
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Because of the slight chance of rain on Saturday, Vicki opted to play it safe and changed the date to Sunday. Needless to say, the deluge occurred on Sunday. Tents and canopies notwithstanding, not all escaped the rain. Gallant Tony escorts Fran into the dryness (?) of the canopy. |
I asked Vicki to give me some thoughts to share that would enlightened those of us who are fortunate enough not to have this daily burden to deal with. She writes:
"I’d like to thank all the Islanders who attended my
celebration of “Surviving Type I Diabetes” dinner party on March 5th.
With the addition of my neighbors here at Elite, we had about 22 people. We
also experienced torrential rain for a bit, but it didn’t stop anyone from
eating, drinking and having fun. The
presence of each and every one of you was the catalyst for the party’s success.
I had wanted to make a toast to thank you all at some point
during the party, but the opportunity never materialized. I was also going to
mention a couple of the most memorable moments of this difficult journey, so
when Charlie asked me to write up a “blurb,” I asked him the restriction of
pages to submit. Below contains the moments and even more than I had wanted to
say.
As you would assume, the number one moment was “Diagnosis
Day.” I was given grim news about my future with this disease from a doctor who
sat back in his huge, wooden, swivel desk chair. Once he finished speaking, he
placed the remnants of his most recent cigarette in the big, amber colored
ashtray on his desk and snuffed it out. I watched the smoke rise. I was 17
years old with no parental support. His predictions, mannerisms and attitude
annoyed me. I remember standing up, full of rage and pointed my finger at him
and saying, “I’m going to prove you wrong!” I stormed out of his office, only
to return to get my glass syringe and metal needle. Ouch. That’s another story
and still painful to remember.
Technology flourished at the best time for me. I can
attribute my lack of fear to try anything as helping to improve the quality of
my life and allow me to live longer. However, technology is only half of the
equation. The other 50% is inside your heart and soul. It took a couple of tough lessons and years
to make me a T1 Warrior.
My second story goes back to early 1976 when I was taken to
the hospital by ambulance due to Ketoacidosis, a possible deadly result from
uncontrolled T1 diabetes. Along for the ride in the ambulance was my 4
month-old son, Glenn, being held by a paramedic. Once at the hospital, the
nurses were fighting over who would hold the baby! I was dehydrated, close to a coma and could just watch.
My ex-mother-in-law showed up to take my son. She walked
over to me and yelled “How dare you put this child at risk of losing his
mother! You better smarten up and take
care of yourself, unless you want another woman to raise your son.”
If not for her, my son could very well have lost his
mommy. I believe she’s the first person
who helped me accept this disease. The second person is my son, Glenn. A parent
would give their life to save their child….I needed to save MY life for my
child, and in time was blessed to fight for two.
The battle was waged. I succeeded and failed, but each time
I got back up and fought again. I fought last night and I’ll fight tomorrow.
Your weapon can never lay idle. It must be carried at all times.
The third major person is the man who has patiently stood by
my side for the last 20 years and been a major contributor to my current
successes. Technology has allowed him to see my blood sugar levels in real
time. He texts me when it’s high and often shows up with candy when it’s low.
He’s always checking my numbers and wakes me at night when the alarms don’t. My insulin pump alarms many times during a
day and overnight. George has not had a full night’s sleep since 2009 and he
doesn’t complain. EVER. Who else could be this lucky?
There are times when I contemplate the “ifs and whys” of the
major setbacks in my life. I’ve come to realize, they have each molded me into
the person I am today; surely a better person than I could have imagined I’d
be."
On Monday, Ray and Kathy traveled the 50 miles to Plant City, FL and spent the day at the annual, week-long Strawberry Festival. If you check out the link, you'll see it's a pretty big deal. The lineup of entertainers alone is impressive (including Willy Nelson, Lynyard Skynyrd, the Oak Ridge Boys, the Gatlin Brothers, Tanya Tucker, the Pointer Sisters, Bill Haley Jr. and the Comets, Wayne Newton, and the Isley Brothers). When they returned, they brought us our taste treat of the day...no, correction...month. These beauties are not color enhanced. I have never seen nor tasted strawberries like these. I think we've all long forgotten what "real" strawberries taste like. I'm talking about the ones you picked fresh from the plant on the farm that grew them or from your backyard; vivid red, sweet and juicy...and here's the best part. They taste like strawberries, not like the strawberries you pick up at the supermarket. Thank you Ray and Kathy.
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Having enjoyed the company of Mark and Mya for lunch during my stay in Daytona Beach, I looked forward to my second visit to this restaurant in Kissimmee. Walter, Ray and I enjoyed an early dinner at Ford's Garage.
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40 draft beers to choose from. After careful reading, my choice was... |
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...the Orange Blossom Pilsner or OBP for short. It's a honey beer made with real, local orange blossom honey. "Taster's Notes" indicated that it's "brewed with real orange blossom honey. There are 2.3 teaspoons of pure Orange Blossom Honey in every can of OBP. But don’t go thinkin’ you’re getting a mouthful of sweetness, sweetness. The fermentation process gives it a crisp, refreshing flavor sans candy-assery. So crack open a cold one. The bees need the work." |
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We shared the homemade "Giant Funnel Tower of Piston Onion Rings" with chipotle ketchup and Hidden Valley Ranch. |
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Ray tackled the foot-long Beer Battered Fish 'n Chips (minus the chips. Good boy, Ray), while Walter wished his "Mama Ford's Homemade Meat Loaf" tasted like his mama's. |
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Half my "Shrimp Mac 'n Cheese came home with me for lunch the next day. An ample portion of shrimp came mixed with cavatappi pasta and tossed in Ford's Beer cheese and topped with a Muenster cheese blend. It tasted as good as it looked. |